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Our minds
consist of our beliefs, thoughts and desires,
which are invisible or ethereal. We know they are
there because we can experience them but we do not
know why or how they exist (for most part). These
beliefs, thoughts, and desires create chemical
reactions (changes) which give rise to our
feelings and emotions. With every thought, there
is a release of chemicals in our brains. These chemicals have a
real impact on how we feel and how we behave.
Repetition of a same behavior creates a habit,
which in turn has an impact on our health,
happiness and destiny/life.
We have only one mind, but
our mind possesses two distinctive characteristics. The
basic nature of the inner mind (subconscious)
is peaceful; whereas the basic nature of the
outer mind (conscious) is analytical. It has
its positives and negatives. It is, however,
the conscious mind that creates all the disturbances
in our lives. Hence, we need to learn to control
our minds.
Our ultimate goal for our
minds is or should be to realize and maintain
"PEACE"
(profound peace), which is
already there beyond our minds, but we keep
on disturbing it by our minds/thoughts, i.e.,
our perceptions and interpretations. Hence,
we call it to realize peace, and not to achieve
peace.
This peace (the calmness/tranquility/serenity/silence/stillness/quietness
of mind), can be best realized through:
1. Meditation - Meditation or
some kind of "relaxation technique"
is the easiest and the initial method (starting
point), but which can be continued for a very
long time or even a life-time. This is an oriental/eastern
approach and very effective plus the fastest
working.
2.
Positive thinking
- Thinking positive is also
known as "cognitive restructuring."
This method requires a lot of understanding
and hard work. This is a western approach and
quite effective as well, but slow working.
3.
Being in the present - This
is also called "present moment awareness."
This is probably the toughest but the ultimate
method. True being or living in the present
is possible only by being aware of the present
moment and accepting it. Ultimately this is
what matters the most. If done properly, then
even the aforementioned 2 methods won't be required.
Being in the present almost means being in meditation
all the time, and not just for 15, 20 or 30
minutes a day.
Ideally, all the 3 methods
should be followed regularly for a fast and
everlasting peace of mind.
When it comes to mind and
body, mind always scores over body (mind over
matter). Even if a person is physically not
very fit, but if his/her mind is peaceful, then
he/she can be quite healthy as well as happy.
However, it's not true the other way round.
If a person is mentally not very healthy, then
no amount of physical fitness will make him/her
healthy and happy in the long run. Hence, mental
health is of prime importance to us.
With
a disturbed and unquiet mind, neither exercise
nor diet, will be of much help in the long run!
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